Are you busy parents who always get to work at the office and have no much time to play with your kids? Try to spend a little time for them, and do something fun like doing cooking together.
When I first began learning how to make wine, I had to pour a five gallon batch down the drain. It was a nauseating feeling thinking about the time, work and effort - going down the drain. I resolved right then that I"d learn more about preventing my wines from being ruined and promised myself that always I would correctly and effectively sanitize my equipment and area.